Don't squash the passion...

So I have just returned form Imogen's class assembly. 

Meet RO the robot and BOT the dog...

It was pretty run of the mill.  Kids standing up and speaking, a few musical interludes, photos on the screen of the residential trip, that kind of thing.  Imogen did well.  She had a couple of sentences to read about her robot and robot dog that were made from cereal packets and ice cream tubs (amongst an assortment of other recycled rubbish!)  I was proud of her, she stood up and said her words clearly, albeit much much slower than her counterparts, concentrating on the words that she had to get out, right arm jerking and flailing uncontrollably.  Everyone clapped her at the end, but I came away sad.

Why was I sad? I was sad because they had finally done it;  they had achieved her doing it all in their way.  She had been squashed, a square peg forcibly shoved into a round hole.
 Had they told her she was going to talk about her robot, and then stood her up, given her her robot (and robot dog!) and asked her to tell everyone about it, she would have stood there with pride, face beaming, completely unaware of all the parents and that she 'should' be embarrassed.  Her chin would have been lifted and she would have spoken (probably at length) about the virtues of her wonderful creations! I know she would have done this because she does it all the time, in many situations, anywhere, anytime.  Like the complete rendition of 'I wanna be like you' to King Louis at Disney World and the conversations with the Zoo Keepers at the local Zoo. At church she is all too willing to go out the front to answer questions or join in a song or dance! 
But they didn't want this.  Instead she had to read - that most hated of all activities, the thing she puts off daily, the thing she struggles with.  Her creativity, her joy, her passion and zest for the activity (which she definitely had; she told us many times of the activity and actually made the dog almost single handedly -literally!- at home) were all lost to a monotonous wall of words, not even a straight clean wall, but a crumbling wall, struggling to hold together.
I ask myself, who has the problem here? Is it Immi who actually has the passion about the activity, but it was lost in what she was asked to do?  Or is it the school who can't cope with the uncertainty of what she might come out with, who can't deal with a bit of spontaneity?  
I taught in this very school last year, so I know where the fear comes from; what if she says the wrong thing, what if she has a melt down, we don't want her to make a scene, we don't want her to be different.  BUT SHE IS DIFFERENT!  And we, as a family, have learned, and are learning to embrace her difference.  
So this evening I am getting her to do her talk again for us and we will cheer an clap and tell her how amazing she is that she can create and find joy in her creation...